Rory Steyn’s life lessons learnt from Mandela
Former presidential security chief Rory Steyn delivered a fascinating address at Nelson Mandela University on Thursday in which he said the lessons he learnt from Madiba remained as relevant today as they were back then.
The talk at the Port Elizabeth university’s council chambers was a Madibaz Sport initiative, set up last year to celebrate the centenary of Nelson Mandela’s birth in 1918.
An ex-policeman, Steyn formed a close relationship with the late South African president when he was a team leader with the Presidential Protection Unit during Mandela’s term from 1994 to 1999.
The humility of the legendary statesman shone through during Steyn’s address and the lessons he learnt from Mandela which he shared with the audience still resonate today.
Steyn said he always grabbed the opportunity to talk about Mandela’s legacy, particularly to the younger generations.
“You, as students, are the future of our country and some people are already forgetting the lessons Madiba taught us and I don’t want that to happen,” he said.
“So I take any chance I can to spread the message of what Madiba taught us and hopefully for you to implement it in your lives, which is something I try to do as a father.”
One of his earliest memories of Mandela’s life lessons came after the assassination of Chris Hani on April 10, 1993, just more than a year before he became president.
“I was overseas at the time, but much later my colleague and fellow team leader in the PPU, Jason Tshabalala, told me what happened when Mandela heard the news.
“Although he was weary from travelling overseas to raise funds for the 1994 election, Jason said he was called by Mandela on the Sunday morning after the assassination, who told him to take him to the SABC.
“There he got himself live onto every SABC radio station and TV network so he could speak to the people of South Africa, saying ‘We understand your anger and what has happened is a terrible crime. But please, do not take the law into your own hands; let the law take its course’.”
When he returned from his overseas trip, Steyn said he learnt that his police colleagues had been placed on standby and if any violence erupted from the townships into the then-white suburbs, the police had been instructed to resist it with force.
“That means people would have been killed, but it did not happen because of the incredible act of leadership by Mandela on that day,” he added.
“He knew how angry people would be and he knew he had to say something to prevent what he later said would have been ‘rivers of blood’.
“That lesson is about seizing the moment. Leaders are required to lead and sometimes it’s just a matter of getting into a car, going to the SABC and asking everyone to be calm.
“Historians looking back will tell you that on that day Nelson Mandela seized the moral authority in our country in a single act of extraordinary leadership.”
When he was a policeman before the ANC was voted into power, Steyn said he was somewhat cynical about Mandela’s speech after he was released from prison in 1990 when he said South Africa was for all people, black and white.
With his career having developed in the days when the ANC were the apartheid government’s sworn foes, Steyn said they had been instructed in the ways of the enemy and he expected Mandela to say such things.
“It brings to mind the occasion of his inauguration as president in 1994,” recalled Steyn.
“On the same day he decided to attend a soccer match at Ellis Park and we went in advance to make sure everything was safe.
“When the time came for Mandela to leave and he was in the car, he made an attempt to get out of the car.
“We did not know what this was about and he said nothing to us, so we followed him as he walked across the area behind the presidential suite at Ellis Park.
“And there, standing across the way, was a real old-school police officer, a colonel in his blue uniform with all the badges of authority.
“This colonel’s eyes got bigger and bigger as Mandela drew closer and when he got up to him the president put out his hand and said ‘I just want you to know that I have just become president and from today there is no more you and us. Today, you have become our police, too’.”
“And this old warrior,” said Steyn, “who had really been around the block, started to cry. The tears rolled down his cheeks and Mandela just patted him on the shoulder and said ‘it’s OK Colonel. I just wanted to tell you that’.
“When I heard him say that I started to question my upbringing and wondered whether the things we had been taught were not all wrong.
“I bought 100% into his ideal of building one South Africa, which was the single agenda he had in his five years as president.
“And we know that by wearing the No 6 jersey at the World Cup rugby final just over a year later, he did just that. He brought a lot of cynical white South Africans onto his side – they were, at least, prepared to give him a chance.”
Steyn said Mandela’s comments about sport were common knowledge.
“He really believed it had the power to unite people. He said sport spoke to the youth in a language their heart could understand – sport could do things that no politician, policy or agenda could do – and his approach literally changed my life.”
A humble side that Steyn respected enormously was Mandela’s ability to acknowledge the common man.
“For instance, we arrived early at the Union buildings in Pretoria one morning and the cleaning lady was still polishing a verandah which led to his office.
“He stopped, asked the lady her name, where she was from and how long she had been working there. Then he thanked her for ‘keeping our offices beautifully clean’ and went on his way.
“Never underestimate the power of saying thank you and the common courtesy Mandela showed to others, no matter their station in life, made a lasting impression on me.”
Madibaz Sport deputy director Riaan Osman thanked Steyn for his contribution and said all the stories were applicable to themselves as an educational facility.
“Aspects such as respecting the time, respecting everyone around you and aspiring to achieve things which unify the diversity of our country really stood out for me.
“He showed that no matter what your circumstances or background, you should not be judgemental but respect everyone around you, notwithstanding their difference in beliefs, status and background. And we thank Rory for sharing those life lessons with us.”
CAPTION: Former Presidential Protection Unit team leader Rory Steyn gave an address at Nelson Mandela University, arranged by Madibaz Sport, on Thursday at which he spoke about life lessons he learnt from late president Nelson Mandela. Photo: Brittany Blaauw